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Everyday Invalidations Connect The Dots

Mostly there is a lot of moving parts with people and places and things-read companies.  They are complex beasts for the most part that have a lot going on under the surface.  I am so tempted to say the unconscious … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations A Is For Awareness Summation

Communicate the need for change, run through or address the factors that influence this cognitive state and you are home free.  Sort of.   In the book ADKAR, How To Implement Change In Our Personal Lives and Our Professional Careers gives … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations A Is For Awareness Part 2

The ProSci ADKAR model advocates that to build awareness of the need for change the following factors are required to be given voice and narrative:   What is the nature of the change?  How does it align with the vision … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Mindful Change And Curiosity

I just finished a 1 day workshop on the above topics. Awesome!   See here for who designed and delivered it Making Change Happen.  I am inspired to re- visit my daily meditation as well as other micro habits I let … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations I Have More Important Things To Do

Another note on energy in negotiations or arguments.  I have come to realize that there is a dire need to be right often with the adversary.  Should you choose to waste and wade into the mire of nonsense then your … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Dinner Table Negotiations

This is where it goes down, this is the playing field most are unaware of.  Emotions or not flow at sit down meals, questions are asked and deals fly or fail here.  Opinions are marketed and change ideas are sold … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The Energy Question?

How much is this worth?  How much is this event worth to me?  Emotionally, financially, energetically (read effort) and time wasted or invested. Is it a family event or matter?  Then there is a good probability that the above factors … Continue reading

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