Tag Archives: suffering

Everyday Invalidations What Is The Current Reality (CR)?

Before a change effort ask the question how bad is it? What symptoms of suffering are being experienced?  How bad is it really? How many undesirable effects are present?  Is it intolerable? If it is not that bad then don’t change or talk about it … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations A New Way of Relating To Myself-Validation And Compassion

I am surprised it has taken me this long for it to sink in.  My “Aha” moment continues to amaze me!  Yes, go ahead and start becoming your own best friend after all you are all you have.  Validate and … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Symptoms Of A System In Suffering

Here is where common sense and critical thinking come into play. If the job offer is too good to be true, it is! Turn and run!  If the situation is so dire that they just need you then turn and … Continue reading

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