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Everyday Invalidations What’s My Problem? Expectations!

What’s my problem?  Expectations, essentially.  Wanting people, places and things to be other than they are.  An overall lack of gratitude and lack of critical thought of how I get myself into drama and disappointment cycles. Is an expectation and … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Drop The Deadbeats

I am reading Cradle2Cradle by William McDonough and Michael Braumgart.  Close to the end of the book they write about putting C2C aka Eco-efficiency into practice.  There are 5 steps they suggest taking in order to change your operating paradigm. The … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations How Does Change Occur?

My answer to this may not be what this hot, sexy and popular nor mainstream.  I suggest that changes occurs out of curiosity of pain and suffering.  It is with the investigative and mindful orientation that there is a possibility … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Defenseless

I am reading The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker for the 2nd time.  My 1st reading was years ago when I had a lot more foolish energy and lack of focus. When a change intervention leaves one defenseless what then?  Defenseless … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Renew Your Soul

This goes beyond follow your passion and perhaps aligns more with values.  There are places and people that drain your soul and are not nice (read evil).  After 9 years in 3rd party agency recruitment I needed some time to regenerate … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change Anxiety

How to lose 50 lbs of fat in 1 year is the change event.  Anxious?  Yes! What is the loss or what is destroyed?  Unwanted and unhealthy fat that may lead to conditions of pre-diabetes and pre cancerous metabolic conditions. … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change, Loss and Invalidation

I wanted to take some time and understand how deeply invalidation roots in our lives during change, disruption and crisis.  Some say it is a Kubler Ross stages effect, it is normal. For others it is the anxiety of change … Continue reading

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