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Everyday Invalidations Change,Loss And Grief-The Business Edition

Change is a hot word these days it is sizzling in fact aka transition, systemic shifts, transformations, impermanence, etc Loss is moderately used and has some degree of popularity in business aka financial loss, sales losses, loss of market share … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Small Wins And Slow Fixes For Change

I am now reading The Slow Fix by Canadian Carl Honore and Small Wins by American Karl Weick.  Both provide me with time to slow down and break the change into tiny pieces to eat one at a time instead … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Defenseless

I am reading The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker for the 2nd time.  My 1st reading was years ago when I had a lot more foolish energy and lack of focus. When a change intervention leaves one defenseless what then?  Defenseless … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The Abundance Piece

On Friday I was on my way to a meeting in downtown Toronto on a busy Friday afternoon.  I was stopped and asked by a man on the street if I had any spare change.  My usual reaction to this … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Renew Your Soul

This goes beyond follow your passion and perhaps aligns more with values.  There are places and people that drain your soul and are not nice (read evil).  After 9 years in 3rd party agency recruitment I needed some time to regenerate … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change, Loss And Grief

Regardless of what school of change thought I read I continue to return to the above words. How come?  Could it be an unconscious connections to my own losses in life yet to be processed or that the trauma associated … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations A New Way of Relating To Myself-Validation And Compassion

I am surprised it has taken me this long for it to sink in.  My “Aha” moment continues to amaze me!  Yes, go ahead and start becoming your own best friend after all you are all you have.  Validate and … Continue reading

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