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Everyday Invalidations More About Deadbeats, Losers and Micro Managers

I have experienced some emotions to the extreme in the workplace.  Often times they were mine and sometimes they were the so called leaders and managers who supposedly had the control, finesse and academic pedigree to solve problems.  What is a … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The Invalidation Of Loss

I am back to this which is a sub set of Change, Loss and Grief.  Loss is denied, invalidated and often repressed.  As I read Ernest Becker there seems to be more evidence that it is what we do best, deny … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change, Loss And Grief

Regardless of what school of change thought I read I continue to return to the above words. How come?  Could it be an unconscious connections to my own losses in life yet to be processed or that the trauma associated … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change The Fat

What is the benefit of fat beyond the metabolic requirements?  Yes it is stored energy however how come I am fat?  Are there emotional or unconscious reasons for it?  Does my fat keep me in a victim position or a … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidation Hard Luck And Drama Stories Of Change

How did I come up with that title?  I just listened really hard to people.  I am not talking about the marginalized or the impoverished.  I listened to learned academics and senior professionals in all levels of government, banking, IT, … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change Anxiety

How to lose 50 lbs of fat in 1 year is the change event.  Anxious?  Yes! What is the loss or what is destroyed?  Unwanted and unhealthy fat that may lead to conditions of pre-diabetes and pre cancerous metabolic conditions. … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations A Is For Awareness Part 1

The A in ADKAR is for the awareness of the need to change.  The opposite of awareness might be ignorance and disregard.  I find the model itself quite pedestrian and simple to read and it looks like a breeze to … Continue reading

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