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Everyday Invalidations Change Of Habit

Posted on May 2, 2017 by 221zombies

  There is a lot of noise out there for self help and buy this advice.  Few talk about the power of habit or take a deep dive into habit.  Few I think have ever taken the inner journey of … Continue reading →

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Everyday Invalidations The Homegrown Hostage Taker

Posted on March 2, 2017 by 221zombies

We learn emotional blackmail and hostage taking at home very early in our given family system of origin.  We learn our dose of sociopathy here as well. Manipulation, lying, coercion, and anti social disorders.  There is a way out of … Continue reading →

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Everyday Invalidations More on Emotional Hostage Taking

Posted on October 30, 2016 by 221zombies

Held for ransom.  The currency of payment is control or the illusion of control.  I have been and continue to read and review literature related to terrorist hostage taking, and crisis hostage taking to provide a bit more context around … Continue reading →

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Everyday Invalidations Motor Mouth

Posted on October 27, 2016 by 221zombies

The chase is on!  They are chasing after you?  For validation, wants, needs and emotional strokes in any form available.  What to do with a motor mouth?  One who corrects incessantly, provides unsolicited advice at each break in the discussion, … Continue reading →

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Everyday Invalidations Emotional Hostage Taking

Posted on October 11, 2016 by 221zombies

All right no body move or the loud mouth gets it!  See. Stop and think of the corrections, threats, put downs, abuse, and verbal violence that occurs in a day, and for what reason?  To control.  Simply put to hold … Continue reading →

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