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Everyday Invalidations Change,Loss And Grief-The Business Edition

Change is a hot word these days it is sizzling in fact aka transition, systemic shifts, transformations, impermanence, etc Loss is moderately used and has some degree of popularity in business aka financial loss, sales losses, loss of market share … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations What’s My Problem? Expectations!

What’s my problem?  Expectations, essentially.  Wanting people, places and things to be other than they are.  An overall lack of gratitude and lack of critical thought of how I get myself into drama and disappointment cycles. Is an expectation and … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Expectations Are The Seeds Of Future Resentments

My expectations set up my suffering and resentments.  Then they should be changed, easier said than done.  But what is an expectation?  How come I project it onto others?  I even have expectations for the family cat.  My sense is … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Small Wins And Slow Fixes For Change

I am now reading The Slow Fix by Canadian Carl Honore and Small Wins by American Karl Weick.  Both provide me with time to slow down and break the change into tiny pieces to eat one at a time instead … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Deadbeat Businesses Who Take Hostages-Be Happy You Are Getting A Christmas Card

This is not about customer service or client responsiveness rather pure validation of those who patronize the business service or product that an organization offers. When we last left our story I was working for a small search firm in … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The Invalidation Of Loss

I am back to this which is a sub set of Change, Loss and Grief.  Loss is denied, invalidated and often repressed.  As I read Ernest Becker there seems to be more evidence that it is what we do best, deny … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations How Does Change Occur?

My answer to this may not be what this hot, sexy and popular nor mainstream.  I suggest that changes occurs out of curiosity of pain and suffering.  It is with the investigative and mindful orientation that there is a possibility … Continue reading

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