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Everyday Invalidations What’s My Problem? Expectations!

What’s my problem?  Expectations, essentially.  Wanting people, places and things to be other than they are.  An overall lack of gratitude and lack of critical thought of how I get myself into drama and disappointment cycles. Is an expectation and … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Expectations Are The Seeds Of Future Resentments

My expectations set up my suffering and resentments.  Then they should be changed, easier said than done.  But what is an expectation?  How come I project it onto others?  I even have expectations for the family cat.  My sense is … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The Expectation Fallacy

You and you alone understand 100% your world, thoughts, feelings, etc.  You and you alone can understand or make meaning from glimpses into your unconscious as well. Even if others such as family, close friends, etc say they get you … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The End Of Complaints

Hmm would that mean that I stop posting and writing?  Not at all.  What exactly is a complaint?  Not sure.  Is it the same as drama?  Is it an expectation that was not met? Now that sounds like I might … Continue reading

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