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Everyday Invalidations Small Wins And Slow Fixes For Change

I am now reading The Slow Fix by Canadian Carl Honore and Small Wins by American Karl Weick.  Both provide me with time to slow down and break the change into tiny pieces to eat one at a time instead … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations More About Deadbeats, Losers and Micro Managers

I have experienced some emotions to the extreme in the workplace.  Often times they were mine and sometimes they were the so called leaders and managers who supposedly had the control, finesse and academic pedigree to solve problems.  What is a … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Ignorance And Change

The unofficial definition I will use here is an unawareness either motivated or unmotivated of reality for the word ignorant.  I admit for many years I was ignorant and to some extent I am still so but not that much. … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The Expectation Fallacy

You and you alone understand 100% your world, thoughts, feelings, etc.  You and you alone can understand or make meaning from glimpses into your unconscious as well. Even if others such as family, close friends, etc say they get you … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The Abundance Piece

On Friday I was on my way to a meeting in downtown Toronto on a busy Friday afternoon.  I was stopped and asked by a man on the street if I had any spare change.  My usual reaction to this … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change, Loss And Grief

Regardless of what school of change thought I read I continue to return to the above words. How come?  Could it be an unconscious connections to my own losses in life yet to be processed or that the trauma associated … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change The Fat

What is the benefit of fat beyond the metabolic requirements?  Yes it is stored energy however how come I am fat?  Are there emotional or unconscious reasons for it?  Does my fat keep me in a victim position or a … Continue reading

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