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This is for the successful, the materially successful that is who remain impoverished. Of course in keeping with my theme of invalidation and such.  This is for the deadbeats, losers and micro managers who rake in billions of dollars in glory and prestige and remain impoverished emotionally.  How come … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Competition Or Compassion

Well what’s it going to be?  Strong enough to fight and see who is better or be a sissy and slink away? Immature invitations for drama used to draw me in as a moth to  flame to prove worthiness and fit to compete. … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations: The Possibility Of Competition

Reading David Nichtern’s book Awakening from the Daydream;The Buddha’s Wheel of Life. I am learning to let go of competition or for that matter what is sold today as “healthy competition”. In all the sales and agency and recruitment bullpens … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The Hollow Company

Right sized, laid off, downsized, rationalized, re-engineered or even bankrupt-insolvent?  Welcome to the hollow company run by Deadbeats, Losers and Micro Managers.  If you are reading this you may notice a little bit of resentment and anger in my words … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Are Deadbeat And Loser Companies The Same Thing?

This is a very good question, excellent in fact.  A deadbeat refuses to validate a relationship or an exchange of value.  There are lots and lots of companies who are deadbeats and are run by deadbeats. Their only concern is for … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations A Is For Awareness Part 2

The ProSci ADKAR model advocates that to build awareness of the need for change the following factors are required to be given voice and narrative:   What is the nature of the change?  How does it align with the vision … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations I Have More Important Things To Do

Another note on energy in negotiations or arguments.  I have come to realize that there is a dire need to be right often with the adversary.  Should you choose to waste and wade into the mire of nonsense then your … Continue reading

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