Monthly Archives: December 2016

Everyday Invalidations Uncouth

One more for you. uncouth ADJECTIVE 1Lacking good manners, refinement, or grace: ‘he is unwashed, uncouth, and drunk most of the time’ More example sentences Synonyms 1.1 (of art or language) lacking sophistication or delicacy: ‘uncouth sketches of peasants’ So … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Crass

Do you know someone like this? crass  ADJECTIVE Showing no intelligence or sensitivity: ‘the crass assumptions that men make about women’ ‘an act of crass stupidity’ What to do about a crass person?  Take that bait and defend? No not … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations You Are First

This is nothing new however it is forgotten quite a bit.  Feed yourself first.  Love, empathize and have compassion for yourself first.  As I am not a big supporter of resolutions for change at the end of the year I … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Negotiation And Conflict Studies Can Be For You!

No I am not selling a book or a course about negotiation and conflict.  The above skill set will gain you great favor at work and at home.  The study and practice of conflict and negotiation is not reserved for … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations The End Of Complaints

Hmm would that mean that I stop posting and writing?  Not at all.  What exactly is a complaint?  Not sure.  Is it the same as drama?  Is it an expectation that was not met? Now that sounds like I might … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations A Contemplation On Gratitude

More Pollyanna?  No just a clear mindful focus on the goodness of the now.  What small blessings are present to sustain your existence?

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Everyday Invalidations The Mirror Of Validation

When our daughter makes a statement to Lara or I we mirror and repeat it.  We validate it.  But what if we did not?  What if we criticized her?  What if we ignored her?  What might happen? So if we … Continue reading

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