What does a bark sound like?
No not a dog bark a human bark.
It has the sounds of distress embedded in it. It is meant to control by fear or threat . It shows that the person doing the barking is out of control. How do you know this ?
I barked order as a football coach and later as a karate instructor. There is a great flow of power that intoxicates perception as masses of people do as you tell them to do. It was as if I could control the weather or move mountains with the wave of my hand. I had an aura of omnipotence or so I thought. When really I was nothing more than an ego maniac with an inferiority complex. I emotionally invalidated people who I coached and taught.
I barked orders because I had to prove I was in control. Control of what ? Nothing. I certainly was not I. Control of myself. I had the illusion that I was in control of other people.
And when reality did not conform to my ideas I barked louder. And then the omnipotence turned to panic as it looked like I was loosing control but that fact was I was never in control of other people. It was a dream, a fantasy of you will. A momentary lapse of awareness.
None of us are flawless however that should not be an excuse for ignorance or stupidity.