Monthly Archives: September 2016

Everyday Invalidations The Shame and Blame Game I was only trying to help

Sit back folks and get ready for a drama ride or at least a good attempt at triangulation with your emotions the currency of trade. trying to Make You Feel Guilty While Invalidating You I tried to help you.. At … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations More to contemplate

There are more lists and inventories on the way here about how we are quietly violent with each other. don’t look so sad. Don’t look so smug. Don’t look so down. Don’t look like that. Don’t make that face. Don’t … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Change Commands-A List for you

Have a read sound familiar ? ¬†Instead of learning how to be curious about anthers emo world we would rather negate, demean, devalue, debase and diminish. ¬†leaving them standing and/or sitting in emotional residue that some else designed and manufactured. … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Root Cause

Emotional invalidation is one of the root causes of relationship conflicts, trauma-induced mental illness and violence.

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Everyday Invalidations Abuse statements

Diminish Demean Discount Disqualify what are you upset about? You are exaggerating You are just like your mother That is not true Why dont you grow up Tell me sometihing that is good that happened dismissed denied nullified subtle suffering … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations You are in a negotiation part 1

You are in a negotiation part 1 An emotional invalidation is an act I say a conscious act of denial, correction, dismissal and or rejection of another’s thoughts, feelings,words and experiences. My working hypotheses is that an invalidation statement is … Continue reading

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Everyday Invalidations Do as I say not as I do

Do as I say not as I do The cornerstone of irresponsibility. My working hypotheses is that this is perpetuated by mid managers who have a lack of skills to confront bad mannered employees.¬† However there are those top performers … Continue reading

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