I have listened and lived most of my life from a perspective of them and they. “They said”, “they know better”
“you know they say that…” Most of it was a judgement or POV and what they wanted me to do. it has nothing to do with what I thought or intended. Jim Camp “You can’t tell anyone to do anything, they must come to decide on their own.’ Telling people what to do is a waste of time.
I am busy; I have a race to prepare for.